Grant Harrold, who served the British Royal Family for seven years, has presented a perspective that contrasts with the often-portrayed narrative of discord within the family. Harrold, who was stationed at Highgrove House and served King Charles III, Queen Camilla, Prince William, and Prince Harry, stated that he observed a strong sense of camaraderie and positive interactions among them.
Harrold recalled shared meals, drinks, and gatherings as evidence of their good rapport, remarking that the four of them "got on so well." This account stands in contrast to revelations in Prince Harry's 2023 memoir, *Spare*, where the Duke of Sussex detailed a physical altercation with Prince William in 2019. Harry described an argument that allegedly led to William grabbing him by the collar, ripping his necklace, and knocking him to the floor. The disagreement reportedly stemmed from Prince William's criticism of Meghan Markle, whom he described as "difficult," "rude," and "abrasive." Harry viewed this as his brother repeating media narratives.
Harrold's observations suggest a more cohesive family dynamic than depicted in Prince Harry's personal account. He specifically highlighted King Charles's efforts to foster a lighthearted atmosphere, noting that the King would often do things to make his sons laugh. Harrold's extensive experience, spanning from 2004 to 2011, provided him with a unique vantage point on the family's interactions during a significant period, including the years leading up to and following King Charles's marriage to Queen Camilla in 2005. He noted that he never witnessed any animosity between Prince Harry and other family members during his tenure.
Harrold's insights are further detailed in his upcoming book, 'The Royal Butler: My Remarkable Life of Royal Service,' set to be published on August 28, 2025. These differing perspectives offer a complex tapestry of royal relationships, with Harrold's firsthand observations suggesting a more unified unit than what has been presented in Prince Harry's widely publicized memoir.